|Selma, AL, 2014-5|
One of the most common ways is deliberately bringing up other people’s (or one’s own parents”) racism gratuitously.
She also criticizes white people remaining "comfortable" in a racist culture.
I can recall conversations with black co-workers in the 1990s, where one of them brought up the fact that I was not aware of the fact that I could pass as a gay man because I was white. I thought it was rather excessive to say that. Here is a particularly grotesque quote from her new book, Twitter.